Sunday, December 22, 2013

Face Your Fears - Christian Comedian Sally Edwards

     What?  I jolted back to reality as I heard Father Greg deliver the rest of his homily with conviction.  Whenever I performed stand-up on a Saturday night, I often fell into a state of exhaustion during Sunday’s church service as soon as I heard the words, “Please be seated.”

      I was alert now as Father proclaimed, “I want to repeat this so everyone understands.  If God gives you a gift, you use that gift to the best of your abilities.  Never let fear stand in the way of accepting God’s gift and sharing it with others!  You go with the fear!”

     There were those words again.  I knew this was God’s way of talking about something very important to me.  It all sounded familiar from years ago but how did God know I was still in hiding?  I had taken a leave from performing because I couldn’t stand the performance anxiety.  I thought I could camouflage myself next to the other soccer moms and pretend it all never happened.  Even though standup comedy was one of the true joys of my life, I was very much in denial.

     Seventeen years of performances across the country had been full of adventure and good times, but I let fear win.  I quit the business. I was hiding and keeping quiet.  But now, in church today, God caught up with me.  He jolted me back to reality and He was talking really loud!

     “Never let fear stand in the way of accepting God’s gift and sharing it with others!”

     I was sure that God was talking to me about my comedic gift.  No one suspected my insecurities because I knew how to carry myself.   The night I filmed my segment of Showtime’s Comedy Club Network at Zanies in Chicago, I felt overwhelmed with both the stress of performing and raising my young children.  In the past six months, my weight had dropped significantly and I looked gaunt.  I studied my reflection in the mirror.  “This cannot be a healthy way to live,” I thought.  “Why am I doing this to myself?”  And the answer was always the same.  “This is what makes me tick.”  In my self-questioning, I held onto a vision of the performer I could become.

     The Showtime taping went well but at a cost.  I was emotionally drained and I continued to lose weight.  I grew weary and gave up the fight.  I let fear win.  I quit.  I hid from my dreams.

     Nobody could understand why I ran away from something I loved so much.  It seemed quite a mystery.   But today God found me hiding in His church.  He had a voice in Father Greg and He was using it.  There was no denying the seriousness of this message. 

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     Discovering a gift is the first step to discovering a beautiful life.  Overcoming the fear in order to share it is the second

http://humorousspeakersbureau.com Sally Edwards is the president of The Humorous Speakers Bureau marketing corporate comedians and funny keynote motivational speakers.
http://sallyedwards.org - Laugh to Good Health
http://comedybysally.com - Clean Corporate Comedy

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